Please join us as we remember

Stephen McDougle

1974 — 2025

We invite family and friends to gather in remembrance, plant something lasting, and share a meal in his honor.

Respond to the invitation

The day

Two ways to gather

You are welcome to attend either gathering or join us for both.

Gathering one

Tree planting

NOVEMBER 7, 2026 · 10:00 AM

PANORAMA PARK · BAKERSFIELD, CALIFORNIA

We’ll gather outdoors to plant a tree in his memory. Please wear comfortable shoes and dress for the weather. If you’d like, you’re welcome to bring gloves and a shovel.

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Gathering two

Lunch together

12:00 PM · FOLLOWING THE TREE PLANTING

PYRENEES CAFE · 601 SUMNER ST, BAKERSFIELD

Afterward, we’ll share lunch, stories, and time together. You’re warmly welcome at either or both gatherings.

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Photos

Stephen McDougle with family in front of a Christmas tree

Stephen McDougle

Ways to Remember

Watch: Burnistown—especially Jolly Boy John
Read: The Complete Maus, Pulitzer Prize graphic novel by Art Spiegelman
Three Days at the Brink: FDR's Daring Gamble to Win World War II by Bret Baier
Listen: “I'm Shipping Up to Boston” — Dropkick Murphys
“Kaw-Liga” — Hank Williams (post-wisdom teeth removal at 15)
Nicknames: Elmer, Stevie, Stevirino, Esteban, Mac

Kindly respond

Will you join us?

Please reply by October 16th 2026 for both gatherings, even if you’re unable to attend.